Musings of a Badlands Ranch Wife

Well, I heard... three of the most dangerous words I know. It seems that every time I hear these three words, they are followed by gossip. And to be truly honest, I have heard these words come out of my own mouth, followed by things that I have heard and feel like I should pass on to another. What is the purpose of passing on information that may or may not be true, engaging in conversations that may hurt another? Imagine if we change the narrative- we start following the words “well, I heard” with a positive, uplifting statement rather than a negative, unkind statement? Other people’s woes, struggles, and misfortunes should not be the center of our conversations. Let’s try it- the next time you find yourself engaging in gossip, whether as the giver or receiver, shake it up and share a positive comment or reply with a kind word. Let’s celebrate each other rather than denigrate each other. I truly believe that we will leave these conversations with a new personal sense of integrity. Let us start aligning our actions with our values. I think I will start right now… 

Well, I heard that we must love our neighbors as ourselves.  (Leviticus 19:18) 

Well, I heard that we should do to others what you would have them do to you. (Matthew 7:12) 

It really is that easy…